In China, people think that a good name is a very important thing, so many parents spend a lot of time think about a good name for their children. My name is Ting Hu. In Chinese my name means beauty, elegance, and good things. In China, Ting is a common’s girl name. In fact, my name wasn’t my parent’s idea. My mother told me when I was born, my father worked in another city. My auntie and other elders of my family stayed in my home, and they wanted to give me a name. Finally, my auntie thought about a name with Ting. She thought it is a good girl’s name and very suitable for me . My parents also agreed with her idea, so my name came out of this.
I really didn’t like my name when I was a teenager. Teenagers always hope that they are special and unique. At that time, I also hoped that I would be different from other people including my name. I met a lot of girls who have the same name with me in China. I didn’t like this common name because I wanted to have special name. Therefore, when I was in middle school, I thought about many names for myself, but finally I rejected these names because they were not better. Now, I moved in Chicago. I changed my mind about my name. In English, Ting is easy to pronounce and remember, so I think this is a very greater thing. For me, a name is just a symbol and no other meaning.
I don't like my name too. I once wanted to change it and thought about it for a long time.
ReplyDeleteI have very similar experience as you. I didn't like my name when I was a teenager just like you. Most teenager want to be a unique, special person. Your writing reminds me of my childhood.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was a kid I didn't like my name too. My name is really common in Brazil, but now I love.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was a kid I didn't like my name too. My name is really common in Brazil, but now I love.
ReplyDeleteI thought I have a unique name, but once I really give a thought to change my name to a normal one. It is common that people want to be unique especially the name.
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ReplyDeleteI like what your name mean 'beauty, elegance, and good things'
ReplyDeleteI like your name, because your name is very simple, and easy to pronounce for American. MY name is YingQi, but the UPS guy keep calling me Ying-quie all the time.
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